It is important to do some research when you are looking for a sex therapy provider to be sure that they have had the appropriate education and training to work with sexual issues, and have received appropriate certification such as AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists) certification in sex therapy.
I attended the University of Michigan Sexual Health program and completed all the requirement to earn my certificate in Sex Therapy, which included 90 hours of sexual health education and 60 hours of training in sex therapy. Following my education I received 50 hours of supervision from an AASECT certified supervisor in order to receive my certification as an AASECT certified therapist. I am an experienced and competent sex therapist who has been trained by some of the leaders in the sex therapy field, most notably Sallie Foley LMSW, the author of "Sex Matters For Women" and a renown AASECT certified sex educator and sex therapist.
I treat a variety of issues related to sexual health including desire discrepancy, erectile disorders (ED), ejaculation disorders, orgasmic disorders and sexually related pain.
Individuals and couples seek the help of a sex therapist for a variety of reasons related to sexual health, intimacy, and relationship issues. Here are some common reasons:
1. Sexual Dysfunction
- Erectile Dysfunction (ED): Difficulty achieving or maintaining an erection.
- Premature Ejaculation: Reaching orgasm too quickly.
- Delayed Ejaculation: Difficulty achieving orgasm.
- Anorgasmia: Inability to achieve orgasm, either in men or women.
- Vaginismus: Involuntary muscle contractions that make penetration painful or impossible.
- Low Libido: Lack of sexual desire or interest in sex.
2. Communication Issues
- Mismatched Libidos: One partner has a higher or lower sex drive than the other, leading to frustration and resentment.
- Difficulty Discussing Sexual Preferences: Couples may struggle to communicate their sexual needs, fantasies, or boundaries.
- Sexual Boredom: Feeling that their sex life has become routine or stale.
3. Intimacy and Emotional Issues
- Emotional Disconnect: A feeling of distance or lack of emotional intimacy in the relationship, affecting the sexual relationship.
- Trust Issues: Past infidelity, betrayal, or trauma that impacts the sexual relationship.
- Relationship Conflicts: Ongoing conflicts or unresolved issues that spill over into the sexual aspect of the relationship.
4. Sexual Trauma or Abuse
- Individuals who have experienced sexual abuse or trauma may seek therapy to address the lingering effects on their sexual health and relationships.
5. Exploring Sexual Identity or Orientation
- LGBTQ+ Issues: Individuals or couples may seek therapy to explore or better understand their sexual orientation or gender identity.
- Sexual Exploration: Some seek therapy to explore non-traditional sexual practices, such as polyamory, BDSM, or other consensual non-monogamous arrangements.
6. Medical Conditions Affecting Sexual Health
- Chronic Illness or Disability: Conditions that affect physical health can also impact sexual function and intimacy.
- Menopause: Hormonal changes that affect sexual desire, arousal, or comfort during sex.
7. Mental Health Issues
- Depression or Anxiety: Mental health issues can significantly affect sexual desire, performance, and satisfaction.
- Body Image Issues: Insecurities about one's body that interfere with sexual confidence and enjoyment.
8. Desire for Sexual Education
- Learning New Techniques: Some couples seek guidance on how to enhance their sexual experiences.
- Understanding Sexual Response: Individuals may want to learn more about their own or their partner's sexual response cycle.
9. Recovering from Infidelity
- Rebuilding Trust: Couples may seek therapy to help repair the relationship and restore sexual intimacy after an affair.
10. Sexual Addiction or Compulsive Sexual Behavior
- Managing Addiction: Therapy can help individuals who struggle with sexual behaviors that feel out of control or harmful.
Sex therapists are trained to address these issues in a safe, non-judgmental environment, helping individuals and couples to explore their concerns, improve communication, and enhance their sexual and emotional well-being.
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